LIFE;IS IT A 'YES' TO ALL?

 LIFE;IS IT A 'YES' TO ALL?


Our life is an array of great -opportunities for us to prove ourselves to the world. As 'opportunity knocks only once' we should not make any delay in our goals and its settings. We have to learn the 'art of making choices' in our life. Meshell Ndegeocello,  an American singer-songwriter says, "Your YES means nothing if you can't say NO." It does not mean that we have to 'poke our nose' into everything that come on our way.

Tossed up in Choices


From the mother's womb itself an individual is selected by the choice. Even a newborn is coming into this world from a choice when it is his right to experience this amazing world. What happens after he has permitted to come out? More and more choices are imposed on him.



 During school and college days choices are often peaceful. Parents should take a special care in observing their wards in a positive manner.  When life enters into responsibilities many situations will emerge where the students face 'Yes or No.' Whatever option they choose will be a crucial one in their further journey of life.

Building the Guts for 'Yes' and 'No'

 We may often get bewildered  by the each and every crossroads we met on our way. Sometimes we travel along the path we wish to go or we go along with the others. We must be ready to face the consequences of the selection our 'paths of life.'

While choices arise we should make a conscious effort to say 'yes or no' to it. The value of the 'yeses and noes' in our life is tested according to the particular situations we face everyday. We should not say 'yes' or 'no' according to the the public opinion. It may not be wise at all. If we want to prove our mettle in our life and career we should take our own decisions and say a 'solid'  yes and 'no' during our trials. The pressure of circumstances will be a major hurdle here but with a 'strong determination' we can overcome it.

'Yeses' and 'Noes' in Personal Relationships

We value personal relationships in our life most. It can be of  our friends or of our family.We wish someone  with whom we can share our thoughts and feelings of life. Here also situations come where we have to be 'bold.' We should take special care to sustain and maintain our personal relationship with others. Our 'yes and no' should be taken wisely so as to preserve our relationships.

Our life is a new journey everyday so we have to start each day with a fresh mind. The bitter experiences of the past should not be included in our luggage. Always remember to take the 'backpack of pleasant memories' in each  day's trip.

                  "Just feel the freshness of     your mind and soul by adding a new   item everyday in your 'delightful   backpack.' "Move on! you will find   many amazing delights on your way."








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