LIFE IS A COMING BACK
Life is a battle that has to be fought with full fervour. Getting wounded and defeated is quite natural in a battle. Cowards and victim players will eventually leave the ground by seeing their dear and near ones fatally injured. Anne Lamott,the American novelist and non- fiction writer quotes "There is nothing as sweet as a comeback,when you are down and out,about to lose, and out of time".
LIFE AS A CHILD
Coming to this earth as a visitor often gifts us a lot of sweet and bitter experiences. It has a lot of things to do in our personal development. The child learns everything slowly and steadily as he moves on his life path. The 'packages of emotions' he get during this time make him an individual fit for the future world.
Traumas and trials of childhood leave indelible scars in the minds of every child. He is lucky if he gets a safe teenage and adolescence. We often see it in the present scenario of our society. Every child gets into this world single and disarmed. They walk and tremble through their pathways of life.
LIFE AS AN ADULT
After getting survived by the unfortunate traumas of childhood a child enters the beautiful transformation as an adult. The so called journey as an adult is not less challenging. Being tied up in the ruthless norms and rules of our society he struggles to even take a breath. The partner who come to share the life would be like a cool shower in the hot sunshine. Unfortunately being two different entities like male and female, differences in opinions will capture the space soon. Both the partners will fight for satisfying their egos and the casual and sudden upheavals will ruin the entire relationship. The saddest fact is that the partners reflect their wounded self to each other. If both the partners have the desire to repair their distorted relationship they can definitely heal their broken relationship.
CONFRONTATION WITH THE REALITIES
Every human being is designed to untie the knots of his own problems. God has created every human being with inbuilt capabilities for confronting their trials and tribulations. It is the pressure of the circumstances that force us to doubt our own abilities and talents.
The first and the foremost thing we have to do is to realise the need of the hour. Sit for a while and contemplate on yourself. Try to recall all the bitter and sweet incidents that have built you throughout the past years. We have two options; either to ponder over our past events or to live in the present. Regrets and guilts have not built a person ever in the history. Confidence and the passion for survival have only moulded an individual.
ACCEPTANCE OF THE SITUATION
It is very important to realise the 'highs and lows' of your character. It is very important to recognise the juncture at where you stand now. You may be at your lowest or you may striving hard to meet the targets in your life. Accept your condition wholeheartedly. Take a strong decision to stick on to the ground. Be firm in your thoughts and move forward. Make sure that you harm no one and follow the policy of 'live and let live'.
Be aware of the battle you are in. Try to realise that the real enemy is inside us, within the depths of our mind. Accept it with our conscience and make a better version of ourselves each and every day. Then you can feel the utmost happiness within yourself. You will not be a 'beggar of love' anymore.
LIFE AS A 'COMING BACK'
All who were tarnishing your character would be waiting to see your decline. Prove yourself that you are not the one who is going to get deleted from the scene. Make better yourself in each and every moment. Life is for those who do not hang on to the temporary blockages that show up on their way. If you have an undeniable faith in God you will jump over all the hurdles of your path. As you move on, each block will get removed and confidence will be added to you. You will be able to rise like the Pheonix Bird from the ashes.
Move On! Hold your head high and fight your battle with a brave heart. The Winners Cup is yours! Yours signature is on it. So grab it soon. Congrats to all of you who have chosen to be the brave warriors.
WISH A GOOD DAY TO ALL MY DEAR READERS.....❤️
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